An advent calendar of activities builds a family tradition that children will remember. Rather than a chocolate behind each door, the reward is time together.
Ideas for the calendar
Bake a batch of biscuits, sing a carol, make a decoration, write a letter to a relative, watch a Christmas film, and go on a night walk to see the lights. Mix quiet days with busy ones.
Keep a book of memories
Record each activity in a small notebook with a photo or a drawing. By the end of December the family has a record of the month.
Let the children choose
Ask each child to suggest an activity once a week. Their ideas are often more imaginative than yours.
Plan ahead gently
Write the list on a sheet of paper and pin it up. Keep a few days free for rest, since a tradition should feel relaxed rather than rushed.
Make it yearly
Keep the favourites and add one new idea each year. In time the calendar becomes something children look forward to.